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Giving Up Cheerleading - VMScheerleader

Reader Submissions: Have You or Would You Ever Give Up Cheerleading for a Boy?

From VMScheerleader#13

What is Your Boyfriend Story?

Well my boyfriend knows i love cheer just the way i know he loves football so he still supports me wen hes not at his football game like he will come n see me cheer or if i have practice n he doesn't he will come n watch or something like that

How Do You Handle Cheering and a Relationship?

Well the way i see it is that if your boyfriend really likes you (not goin to say love cuz teens don't know what love is!!!) he wont let you give up cheerleading even if the skirts r short n the moves mite be a little provocative its OK a lot of guys don't like that but he just has to be open about cheer its the way cheer is. Also maybe if hes making you give it up he might not be the one for you. sure you didn't want a guy whose perverted n u dnt want a guy thats goin to make u give it up but a guy whos ok with u bein a cheerleader.

Lessons Learned

  • Idk i didn't really learn a lesson cuz most guys at my school actually like cheerleaders its kinda gross but my boyfriends isn't all pervert but he's not one to judge cheerleaders for the dances they do n what we wear he just lets me do what i love n that's how it should be in a relationship u guys r happy doing what u love

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